Skip to main content

Abdi

Mom and Dad had many adopted sons and daughters. Mom and Dad were adopted. Undeniably, Abdi loved Mom. Abdi was also one of Mom's pet names for her real son, Andy.

Abdi

His face was terribly long and depressed. There were none of the usual jokes. His driving could almost be called sedate, and while I quite enjoyed the unusually reasonable speed and careful driving I was uneasy. Nothing very much, in the normal course of things, disturbed our project driver’s panache or his gallant Bedou style of driving. We depended on his self-confidence to deliver his services, from finding cigarettes on the black market to knowing which official to bribe. Every humanitarian aid organisation has an Abdi in Somalia, a Salvatore in Haiti, a Mohamed in Indonesia, a St. Pierre in Guinea Conakry. Nothing should disturb Abdi’s cheerful confidence to produce whatever was asked for.
He had the physique of a nomad, brought up on an inadequate diet of goat’s milk, millet porridge, some meat . He was not tall, and very slender, with a very dark skin scarified skin. He came from a quite low caste Somali clan, the Afgaal, who some years later took power and ruled Mogadishu. Whenever we caught film footage of men brandishing Kalashnikovs on the top of their “technicals”, the four-wheel vehicles taken from aid workers like us and transformed into fighting machines, we peered eagerly at the screen to catch a glimpse of him. A colleague who had returned to Mogadishu briefly for Oxfam reported seeing him on the roof of a technical, turban and kikoi flying, waving and smiling at her – but they all looked the same, these men with the qat-induced grin.

At the time he worked for me, through most of the 1980s he seldom showed the extreme emotion that took him almost to the verge of lunacy. But a small transgression by a traffic (an unmentionable description of Abdi’s mother, a request for a bribe at a moment deemed unsuitable) had Abdi driving up and down wildly trying to drive over the terrified man’s foot

By Eve Hall

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Aerogramme from Lisa and Richard

To: Mr & Mrs J. Hall, Box 49 Eikenhof (TVL) Johannesburg Afrique du Sud. 28.3.76 Dear John and Nola, Today a week ago we were still in New Delhi with Eve and Tony and the boys and the whole thing looks like a dream. We arrived on the 28.2 in New Delhi and were happy to see the whole family fit and in good health. The boys have grown very much, Phil is just about the size of Tony and the twins are above average. We stayed untill the 22nd March, as our visa ran out and we did not want to go through all the ceremony of asking for an extension. It also got hotter and I don't know how I would have supported the heat. The extra week would also have passed, so we decided not to go to all the trouble with the authorities and leave on the 22nd. I cannot tell you how happy we have been to see such a lovely family, so happy and united. It is rare to experience sucha thing and we have both all the reasons to be proud of them (when I say goth I mean you and us ). There is su

Guardian books blog fringe: Norman Mailer

FLASHING THE GUARDIAN -- A BOOKS BLOGGERS' REBELLION :  The unheroic censor with a death wish Part 1: In which Norman Mailer stars in an experiment in search engine optimisation By ACCIACCATURE 3 February 2009 When Norman Mailer died in 2007, informed opinion – in the blogosphere, people who had read at least two of his books – was split. The army of readers who saw him as one of the most despicable misogynists writing fiction in the 20th century was perfectly matched by warriors on the other side, who raged that the label wasn’t just unwarranted but tantamount to heinous calumny. Before commenters returned to bitching-as-usual, tempers were lost on literary sites all over the net in debating temperatures high enough to bring to mind tiles burning off space shuttles re-entering Earth’s atmosphere. After I'd agreed to a spontaneous suggestion by our good friend Sean Murray -- a pioneer and stalwart of the comments section of The Guardian’s books blog – that we re-

Guardian: Kate Harding's reactionary censorious blog on CiF

It should go without saying... ....that we condemn the scummy prat who called Liskula Cohen : "a psychotic, lying, whoring ... skank" But I disagree with Kate Harding , (in my view a pseudo blogger), posting her blog in the Guardian attacking bloggers. It's a case of set a thief to catch a thief. The mainstream media is irritated by bloggers because they steal its thunder and so they comission people like Kate Harding , people with nothing to say for themselves, apparently, other than that they are feminists, to attack bloggers. I'm black. So I can legitimately attack "angry white old men". I'm a feminist, so I have carte blanche to call all anonymous bloggers "prats." Because yes, that is her erudite response to bloggers. No I don't say that the blogging medium can't be used to attack progressives in whatever context. Of course it can. But to applaud the censorship of a blogger by a billion dollar corporate like Google, and moreov